*note: this is a response to Esther's blog on Myspace
"So.... what do you think ladies? What's your type of guy?" - Esther
I like the type of guy who can be as open-minded as me or at least considerate of other ideas because I think if he was anymore open-minded as me...he would be gay, semi-gay, or oddly obscure in the mind. I definitely do NOT want a "party-hard till I drop" type of guy but I would like someone who is outgoing enough to be able to converse with someone properly and even provoke someone's mind. A thinker and/or a conversationalist. I would also like for him to know when to be down to earth and relax too because having your mind reel over a topic for too long is not good at all. With me, I don't like to be wrong but I would rather have the truth and be proven wrong than to be lied and misled. I like being the one who is more logical and wise however sometimes I don't mind being the one in the wrong and have to be reminded to be sensible. Logical, sensible, honest, wise. I would like for him to be romantic but he doesn't have to be in order to sweep me off my feet. All he has to be is thoughtful or sweet. He doesn't always have to be 24/7 spontaneous but I'd like it if he could change things up from the daily schedule every so often.
I definitely want a health & hygiene-conscious man I don't like the fact I'm narrow-minded based on physical appearances but I don't want a greasy, unclean, mess of testosterone. That's not attractive what-so-ever. I don't want, in any way, for him to be OVERLY health&hygiene conscious guy. Seriously, how are you supposed to enjoy some of the natural and pleasurable points in life (such as desserts and running through nature)?
Oh boy, do I want a gentleman and at LEAST know the basics of that kind of etiquette as well as mannerly. I will not tolerate mistreatment of me especially if I do not know them on a deep, personal level. Such as verbal or physical abuse. I don't mind if he farts here and there, or burps loudly sometimes or even laughs really loud about a joke. At certain points in time, it's appropriate...in my opinion. I do that stuff too. Unladylike, right? I'm okay with cursing to a degree but I don't want that guy shooting the f-bomb everywhere. I don't want any "gangster" either. I don't want some guy to be slurring every other words and mixing them with others and have their pants practically hang around their ankles. WEAR YOUR DAMN PANTS RIGHT. It's gross and I do NOT want to see the crease of your ass. I don't need a guy repping a sign in every picture or at all. If it's part of the family or whatever keep it in the family.
I like a guy who can stand up for me or is slightly over-protective. I don't mind if he gets jealous sometimes. Appropriately enough. It's cute and I like a guy who doesn't mind showing how much he treasures his girlfriend.
I don't know if I'm going to get super detailed, because I'm already pretty detailed so far. It takes a little common sense for one trait to lead to something else. Perhaps there will be another blog about the way guys dress.
What's your type of guy, Ladies?
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"I definitely want a health & hygiene-conscious man I don't like the fact I'm narrow-minded based on physical appearances but I don't want a greasy, unclean, mess of testosterone."
ReplyDeletehaha, i laughed so hard when I read that. I completely agree with on everything you wrote about what you want in a guy! seriously.
man, you really know how to express your thoughts beautifully in such great words.